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Helping Children Become Bi-lingual

In addition to being a native speaker of English, I also speak fluent German. I have an 8-year-old stepdaughter, and my wife just gave birth to our son. I would like to give both of them the benefits of a second language. Do you have any tips on how to do this? - Translator
Answer: You are able to offer a great gift to both of your children. They will develop not only the lifelong ability to communicate with more people, but they might also have improved performance in school as well as an advantage in future careers. You are wise to begin helping them learn two languages now, as they are more likely to have native pronunciation.
Even though your young son can't talk right now, speak to him in both languages, as he is busy acquiring the meaning of words. In helping your child learn both English and German, do what is natural to your family. He will need to hear both languages in many different circumstances in order to be able to speak either language well. Don't expect your son's knowledge of both languages to be perfectly balanced. And don't be surprised if he mixes words or phrases from one language into the other.
At her age, your stepdaughter will probably think it's fun to learn another language. She will pick up a considerable amount of German from hearing the simple words and phrases you use in talking to the baby. Teach her the German words for common household objects and everyday expressions ("hello," "goodbye") so she can be proud of helping the baby learn to speak both languages. Another easy way to expand her knowledge of German is through simple word games, bedtime stories and songs.