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Finding Playmates for Private School Children

We have just moved to a new city where my son, a fifth-grader, goes to a private school. Unfortunately, none of the kids in his class live close by. How can I help him find after-school playmates in our neighborhood? -- Lonesome
Answer: Most children in your son's situation will find friends in three places: organized groups, such as scouts; classes, from swimming to karate to art; and team sports.
You can find the scouting activities in your neighborhood by calling the scouting district office. If your son has an interest in learning a particular skill, a local parenting magazine or a neighbor can provide leads to classes that might interest him. As far as finding sports teams goes, this can be a bit more difficult. Sports teams are typically sponsored by communities or local organizations. A neighbor with a child your son's age or even an older child should be a good resource for finding out what is available locally.
Another way to find playmates in your neighborhood is to drive around and look for parks where children are playing in organized or informal games. Plus, investigate what the public schools in your area have to offer. Some may have after-school programs that are open to children who do not attend that school.
Finally, you should get out and meet your neighbors. They will know of other children who live close by.

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